"I'm gonna..." My Story with MS...

Sit back for the next few minutes while I tell you a story. It's about time I did this...
On May 6th, 2017 I ran the Run for MS 5K. It's not like this was my first race, nor my last, but it was special to me because it was for me... and several of my dear friends. You see, something I had not been open about for years was that in January of 2014 I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and began treatment. MS is different for each person and, in my case, what finally led to diagnosis was the loss of feeling in my legs & eventually my whole lower body. This numbness began on a normal Tuesday morning that January & crept up until I was walking & getting around on muscle memory alone. That is the reason running is now so special to me. Thankfully during that MS relapse I retained muscle control.  But every step was taken in hopes that my feet landed right & I didn’t fall. Along with it came stiffness in my knees & I felt utterly helpless much of the time. Once, when the stiffness came in addition to the numbness, I had to sit down mid-way up our stairs with my 15 month old little girl because I just couldn't make it up the stairs. I sat down & cried & held her & prayed. I will also never forget walking out in front of thousands of people to lead worship during several church services one weekend that month praying I wouldn't fall coming on & off stage. As I heard myself sing into the microphone "now by Your grace I stand, healing is in Your hands" it was such a literal statement & powerful moment for me. I was learning a whole new level of dependence on God. During that season there was no guarantee that I would ever regain feeling, which was a big adjustment. It was nearly 2 months before I did regain most of the feeling back, and though it was a slow progression I did eventually get back to normal. I still deal with episodes where I get creepy crawly or buzzing sensations down my legs and feet that come along with weakness or a little trouble balancing, which are residual symptoms that I’ve been told I may always have occasionally. Most people think of MS affecting the brain only, but this all happened when it had reached my spine too.

At the time I was diagnosed I decided I wouldn’t post it all over social media, though I never stopped thinking about it. I was afraid it would seem like I was asking for people to pity me or treat me differently; and that was how I rolled with it for the next few years. Then, last year on Labor Day weekend (2016) my hubby and I decided to hike a 14er since we were living in Colorado. We joined a couple friends and headed up Mt. Bierstadt. I had heard an interview with another gal with MS the week before that had been so encouraging to me. It gave me a boost of energy and renewed confidence to keep pursuing things I enjoy. Now, here I was struggling to get up that mountain. Everyone had to keep stopping to let me catch up because I was moving so slowly. Every step was a bigger and bigger challenge because my knees were stiffening up again to the point my hiking poles were being used like canes or crutches.  Suddenly, I flashed back to that time I was holding my baby and couldn’t get up the stairs and I felt helpless again. But I am stubborn and just kept going. By the time we reached the ridge I felt so defeated and I started to cry, telling them to go on up to the summit. I’m proud to say that after a while, I was able to make it to the summit to both my husband’s & my amazement. The trip down wasn’t easy, but as I was hiking down it became clear to me that it was time to finally open up about my MS and what it’s like living with it. I want to be an encouragement to other people dealing with these kinds of trials and challenges. It had been so good to hear someone describe what I had been through and who understood the challenges of living with it – not just physical challenges, but the emotional and mental challenge it continues to be. It was good to know that someone else out there got what I was dealing with more fully than I could ever convey to even those closest to me. It was time for me to tell my story…

I could go on & talk more about the craziness of MS - of how heat affects me, or of my recent MS related episodes. But I’ve already written a lot and I remain grateful that I do have feeling back in my lower body and legs, for the most part. The MS diagnosis was kind of a relief because it explained other symptoms I had been dealing with for years. I have now adopted a line from one of my favorite worship songs that says, "I'm gonna sing until my voice won't let me." That's how I plan to live. Knowing MS can affect anything in my body where I have nerves (everywhere), I want to live fully and not delay while I have the ability. Hopefully I always will, but the unpredictability of MS is one of the most difficult parts of living with the disease. So I sing, I ski, I hike, and I run - through the symptoms that come. “I’m gonna do all those things until my legs and body won’t let me.” And even though MS fatigue feels nearly unbearable some days and I forget things easily, I will keep going and pushing through.

I hope you realize that MS is something a lot of people around you might have and you not even know it. Medications developed in the past 20 years to stop or slow the progression are life-changers. Many of us are pretty good at hiding it too.  But ask those who live with us and they could tell you a whole different story.  I hope my story has encouraged you in knowing that you are not alone in whatever trial you are going through, and that you can live life to it’s fullest every day. It may be different than what you thought it would be, but there is still so much to enjoy when you look around. Remember, though you may be met with limitations, you still have a place in this world and reason for being here.

Finally, for me and for my friends Sarah, Mikal, Deana, Lauri, Sam, Jamie, Shauna, and KJ - all friends of mine who live with some form of MS - and for the dear friends and family who help us along - please consider making a donation for the sake of continued MS research and services that will affect all of us and our families. 


My Weekend in Las Vegas

So, I spent last weekend in Las Vegas where I auditioned for this little show called The Voice. Ya know, it had been on my mind off and on for a long time so I took this step. See, I just don't want to live with regrets anymore. So, yes, I finally auditioned for it and it was a looooong day... 6 hours to be exact. It was like herding cattle who could all sing pretty good. Right from the start though I met some people and we all began to share the experience. It's always neat to be with people who have a common passion or interest but are all in different places in the journey. There were so many people there for various reasons, I'm sure. I got to speak encouraging words to a few younger girls too. Quite a few there thought their whole life and all their dreams came down to this one "audition". And all it really came down to was one table, 10 chairs full of people with hopes and dreams, and one man behind a computer who in a rather stale tone told us to "Come to the center and stand on the white X when I call your name, then tell me what song you're singing. I only want a verse and a chorus." And so that's just what we did. Thousands of talented people that weekend did the very same thing. While neither I nor anyone I met that day got a call-back it was certainly a good experience. I finally understood that it is not so much a vocal audition, but rather a casting call for a tv show. They were looking for something "specific for this season" and didn't find it there that day. I never really thought I would get on the show, but I had to go to bring it all into the light of experience. I didn't want to go through life with any nagging regrets and what-ifs to battle. There is so much to this life and the arts and music... there are so many genres and I frankly enjoy singing lots of them! And so the judge told me when I approached him afterwards that my having songs of different genres would tell the network that I don't know who I am as an artist. Ha. To that I smiled and told him I've done this for a lot of years and feel rather good about who I am as an artist. With a quick thank you and a grin I left. Again, it's a casting call for tv. I feel no loss because if that was the path God wanted me to take, I truly believe He would have opened the door. Now I rest in knowing that I went out there and I tried it, and that feels so great.

If you have a dream, dream it, pray about it, then open your eyes to what it might actually turn out like. Dream big, reach big, and flourish in it wherever you are! The world is a big big place and there is a need for you and your dream all over it. So never limit yourself by thinking success could only look like your name in flashy lights or tv screens. I believe we make a bigger difference in the world by connecting with each other along the way as we live out our dreams and gifts... right wherever we are.

Christmas Worship at the Ark...

Oh this season is crazy in a lot of ways, but it is still my favorite! Happy Holidays! You know, even if it's just the memory of my Christmas night duets and dances with my sister in our new footy pajamas around the Christmas tree and scraps of paper that hadn't made it into the trash... or the way my mother has always worried way too much over how much we liked our gifts... or how bleak the world seems about 2 days after... It's all a wonder-filled time of year when we pause for just a moment. But could we just leave our lights up all winter please? I'm not suggesting a year-round Rudolph or the blow-up snow globes, or even the nativity scene. I've just always wished we could leave some up because it makes it so much prettier out on those cold winter nights. Anyone else with me?

Anyway... Though this is my first Christmas away from my oldKentucky home, I must say that one big treat for me this December (besides getting shopping done early! And Jesus of course!) was when I got to kick off the holiday season by playing two nights of house "concert" in an incredible house here in Denver. The folks who live there lucked into this gem of a house that was built around a beautiful Wurlitzer organ. There is even a hydraulic lift from the basement up into the main living room! Now the organ is of course gone, but what a great place for music and that is what they have had a vision for there... music and worship. So, I and two other great ladies got to play there for the first ever "Worship at the Ark". What is so awesome about this trio is that we are all three moms and managed to successfully rehearse with the kids running around us at my house. (A Christmas miracle!) There was a deeper understanding among us though as kids came and went. And even more was how we could connect with the story of Jesus' mother Mary and what she went through. It was beautiful really. So, not only are we a girl-band... We are a MOM-band!  Hopefully it will be the first of many other times we play and worship together. If you want to watch the Facebook live videos of either night and have some Christmas cheer and worship you can head over to the Media page and scroll down, or just click here.

'Tis the season to be extra grateful and generous and not let the reason for this pause be overlooked. Jesus came for us all and we each need Him more than we recognize most days. What a gift. What a Savior. I pray you find at least one peaceful moment this Christmas to reflect on the King and His unmatchable love for you.

Be blessed and have a very Merry Christmas!


Come On In

Glad You're Here... Come on in!

Thanks for stopping by! I really value transparency and loyalty in friendships and relationships. So welcome to my new blog and website. I don't want to feel like there is some expectation for what I write on here. I will sometime think "out loud" or maybe in text. So let's get started. :) FIRST - Ok. So there's a lot of pressure for musicians to prove their "worth" by the number of "likes" and "shares" and "hits" etc. And sure, that does give us some encouragement when it happens. But not everyone thinks that way. And there is much more value to a song than the click of a button. (maybe I'm wrong, so share and like as you wish of course! lol)  What is the business of music now? Sure making a living doing what you love is great but you have to spend so much time making numbers that you miss out on the living part. And certain social media sites can suck the energy out of you and can be discouraging if you look at the stats they offer you. So, I make music and enjoy life. That seems like success to me. Rant done. :) ... but life. Yes.

Seriously I hope this site will be a place I can share songs with you as I write them and some songs I've already recorded... And maybe you will even be encouraged by my blogging random thoughts too. Who knows. Come on in to my "house on-line" here though... it might be a little messy but enjoy your stay.

Laugh, love, live and enjoy the moments you are given.  -  Adrea